ASK ME with Megan Weks
In modern times, women are becoming more independent and successful than ever. We have become equals with men. It is not a “man’s world” anymore. Times have certainly changed women in many ways but there is still a common thread among we modern, strong women – that is the urge to have a man in our life.
Regardless of how strong, independent, and capable a women is, she still has an undeniable, extremely strong urge and attraction toward males. Although the fabric of the family unit may change over time, the desire to have a male partner exists and will exist until the end of time. Of course a woman can be happy without a man. But to reach the optimal level of happiness in life, the love, romance, safety and protection of a masculine partner persists.
There are women who feel who they are happy in their choice to be single. There are women who say that marriage is obsolete. There are women who feel too evolved to “paint” themselves in makeup or remain a certain shape to attract and maintain the attention of a man. There are women who will not alter or learn about behaviors, which attract men like glue.
I am not one of those woman.
I understand the gifts that embracing male psychology provides.
I’m thrilled to have sought and accepted this knowledge.
I’m thrilled I’ve put it into play and am now able to dance the dance of intimacy and life with a wonderfully, sexy, strong, providing male partner.
A male partner who wants to hold me, hug me, kiss me, talk to me, listen to me, travel with me, adore me, compliment me, learn about me, and share his last moments with me.
But it wasn’t always like this.
I had to work for it.
I had to accept that male psychology was different than my own.
I had to appreciate who he was before he could appreciate the essence of me.
There were things I was doing to block this deeper connection and glorious flow, which I now coexist in with my partner.
Men are aware of our strength. Our lack of need.
He knows you are capable. He knows you can do it as well, or better.
But he does not have to be reminded of this repeatedly.
It takes a strong women to let it go. Let go of the control. Stop proving that you can do it.
Allow him to come into your world and assist you.
Yes, you can do it alone.
But how nice would it be for him to assist you?
Allow him to do for you. Allow him to be your hero.
Shower him with appreciation.
Let him step in and take the actions.
Let him take the lead.
Allow yourself to receive the love, which he shows through his efforts for you.
Show him his efforts make your life colorful, deep, and easy.
Here is what this looks like:
Allow him to decide
Allow him to choose
Allow him to lead
Allow him to come to you when he is ready
Allow him to be without digging into him with questions
Allow yourself to be surprised
Accept him
Let him be free
When you can create the kind of environment where a man can thrive, he won’t ever want to leave. When you can appreciate him for who he is and the little things he does for you, he will be motivated to continue to do those things for you. When he can feel free and has the space that he needs to come toward you, he will move in your direction. Allow his masculinity to shine in your presence. Let our flower bloom and collect his rain. Allow him to shine in his glory.
Megan Weks is an international dating and relationship expert who specializes in helping women get the admiration they deserve from men, and to keep it. She is a certified specialist in her field, but one of her biggest credentials is her personal story. Living in New York City for over a decade, Megan has had the opportunity to meet and date many different men. Through working with a relationship guru, she literally changed from crumb-picking and obsessing over men who didn’t deserve her, to being called a “man whisperer” who men (including her now-husband) would never leave. Megan’s career is devoted to helping women who struggle with the men in their lives, to turn it all around and keep the men they desire. Megan coaches individual women in intense programs with her proven Lean Back for Love System and principles. She also runs a private online woman’s discussion group where women are supported with these principles. You can connect with her on her website www.meganweks.com. LVBX readers are also eligible to receive a complimentary feminine energy mini-session. Reach out to her on Twitter or Facebook, and subscribe to her LVBX LIVE videos on LVBX Magazine’s Facebook page.
Megan’s Philosophy: Lean Back (definition) – The posture of a fully self-actualized woman, which allows men and their energies to flow toward her. She is focused on herself and her life as an individual, in preparation and willingness to receive her greatest love in return.
